HUSBAND AND WIFE PROBLEMS OF FIRST INTERCOURSE

HUSBAND AND WIFE PROBLEMS OF FIRST INTERCOURSE

MALE PROBLEMS OF FIRST INTERCOURSE:

Pehli mubashrat mein mardo'n ko amooman do masail ka saamna karna parta hai kyun kay yeh unki pehli mubashrat hoti hai uski mani ki naaliyan (seminal vesicles) bhari hui hoti hain jo kay ma'amooli jinsi ishtiaal ki wajah sey mani ko baher nikal deti hain yani khawand ka inzal (discharge) jald ho jata hai ba'az auqaat to dakhool sey pehley hi mard manzil ho jata hai. Iss sey mard bohut zyada sharmindagi mehsoos karta hai jab kay yeh koi jismaani beemari nahin iss surat mein aap bhi jhunjhalaahat ka izhaar na karein thori der ba'ad woh phir tayyar ho jaey ga aur mubashrat karein iss bar uski kaarkardagi behter hogi aur aa'enda bhi rozana do baar mubashrat karein to khawand ki kaarkardagi bohut behter ho jaegi. Mu'aashrey mein pheli hui bey shumaar ghalat fehmiyo'n (misconception) (sex education….sab kay liye mein inka tafseeli zikr mojood hai) ki wajah sey aksar naujawaan ghalat tor per apney aap ko kamzor samajhtey hain aur unko mubashrat mein nakaami ka khauf hota hai aur iss khauf ki wajah sey ya to unko tana'u nahin hota ya kam hota hai ya phir dakhool sey pehley yakdam khatam ho jata hai, jis fard ko kabhi bhi tana'u (erection) ho woh bilkul normal hota hai, uska masla sirf nafsiyati hota hai. Aap khawand ki hosla afzaee karein aur tanzya fiqra na kahein warna woh humesha kay liye naa mard ho jaega, iss surat mein do haftey foreplay karein aur mubashrat sey mukammal parhaez karein woh bilkul theek ho jaega. Taa'hum agar woh humari kitab "Sex Education…Sab Kay Liye" parhley to uska masla jald hal ho jaey ga ba surat e deegar foran kisi achey mahir e nafsiyaat sey raabta karein.

FEMALE PROBLEMS OF FIRST INTERCOURSE:

Khawateen ki ek bari ta'adaad pehli mubashrat mein orgasm hasil nahin karti iss ka zimm e daar amooman mard nahin hota agarcha woh mard jo surat e inzal (premature ejaculation) ka shikar hotey hain amooman unki biwiyo'n ko orgasm hasil karney mein diqqat hoti hai taa'hum bohut si aurtein fitri tor per shaadi kay shuru mein orgasm hasil nahin kar patii'n. Ba'az ko to baqa'eda orgasm hasil karna seekhna parta hai. Orgasm (sexual climax) waley hissey mein iss mozou per tafseeli guftugoo ki gai hai parh le jiye ga.

Aurton ki ek bohut ma'amooli aqliyat mubashrat sey bohut zyada khaufzada hoti hai jis ki wajah sey mubashrat kay waqt unn ka jism khusoosan taangei'n akarr jati hain aur faraj ka mu'nh bilkul band ho jata hai jiski wajah sey dakhool na mumkin hojata hai yeh ek beemari (vaginismus) hai jis ka elaj bohut aasaan hai iss ka tafseeli zikr aagey aaey ga. Iss hawaley sey ek baat zehen mein rahey kay bazer kay ishtiaal sey faraj ka mu'nh tung ho jata hai jab kay faraj kay ishtiaal sey uska mu'nh tung honey ki bajaey relax ho jata hai doosrey alfaaz mein iss surat mein bazer ki bajaey faraj ko mushtail kya jaey.
Bohut si wajoohaat ki bina'a per bohut si aurton ka parda e bakarat (hymen) ya to khud ba khud phutt jata hai aur ba'az ka hota hi nahin yani parda e bakarat ki adam mojoodgi aurat ki asmat ki alamat nahin (mazeed tafseel kay liye dekhein "Sex Education ….Sab Kay Liye") lekin humarey haan aksar mard iss hawaley sey bohut hassas (concious) hain yani agar pehli mubashrat mein khoon na nikley to woh biwi ko paak daaman nahin samajhtey aur nobat talaaq tak pohonch jati hai. Haala'n kay biwi paak daaman hoti hai iss ka bara saada aur aasaan hull hai aap mubaashirat kay waqt ek common pin ya sui apney paas rakhein mubaashirat kay waqt uss sui ko apni ungli per maarein to uss sey khoon kay chund qatrey nikleingey uss khoon ko bister per laga dein khawand mutmain ho jaey ga.

KHAWATEEN KI JISMANI SAAKHT:

Jismaani saakht ki wajah sey ba'az khawateen ki faraj tung (tight) hoti hai aur ba'az ki qadrey dheeli (loose) jis mein dakhool aasaan hota hai aisi surat mein ba'az auqaat mard ko biwi ki paak daamini per shakk ho jata hai ba'az auqaat nobat talaaq tak pohonch jati hai. Iss pareshaani sey bachney kay liye mubaashirat sey pehley apni faraj ko phitkiri miley pani sey dho lein faraj tung ho jaegi ya phir PC muscles ki mushq sey dakhool kay waqt faraj kay mu'nh kay muscles ko bhee'nch lein to dakhool qadrey mushkil hoga. Iss tarah khawand kisi qism kay wahem mein na parey ga. PC muscles ki mushq ka zikr aagey aaey ga, kuch arsey pehley mujhey ek naujawaan ney shaadi kay doosrey din bohut pareshani kay aalam mein phone kya kay pehli mubaashirat mein faraj ka mu'nh tung na tha jis ki wajah sey dakhool bohut aasaan tha usko shakk tha kay kahiin uski biwi budkaar na ho aur pehley hi mubaashirat ka tajurba na kar chuki ho jab uss sey aurat kay jism ki saakht ki wazahat ki gaee to woh mutmain ho gaya ab hansi khushi zindagi basar kar raha hai.

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SHAADI KI PEHLI RAAT (SUHAAG RAAT)

SHAADI KI PEHLI RAAT (SUHAAG RAAT)

Humarey haan aksar yeh baat ma'aroof hai kay shaadi ki pehli raat mubashrat honi zaroori hai warna valima ja'ez na hoga haala'n kay Quran o sunnah ki roshni mein iss baat ki koi haqeeqat nahin humarey haan amooman nikah raat ko bohut late hota hai aur dulhan ko ghar pohonchtey pohonchtey raat kay do, dha'ee baj jatey hain iss doran donon thak kar chuur ho chukey hotey hain pehli raat donon thakawat, khauf, ghabraahat, nervousness aur hichkichahat ka shikar hota hai, khusoosan agar mian biwi pehley sey ek doosrey sey waqif na hun humarey haan aksar aisa hi hota hai larki apna ghar chor kar naey ghar aur naey logon mein aati hai usey khauf hota hai kay na janey susraal kay log kaisey hongey, khawand ka ravaiyya kaisa hoga. Doosri taraf larkey ko sex kay hawaley sey nakaami ka khauf hota hai kay aayah woh mubashrat kar sakey ga ya nahin larki ko bhi mubashrat ki takleef ka khauf hota hai iss khauf aur tashweesh ki wajah sey aurat ki faraj ka dahaana tung ho jata hai aur faraj kay ander chiknaahat ki kami ho jati hai, larka samajhta hai kay agar iss ney pehli raat mubashrat na kii to larki samjhey gi shayad mian iss qabil nahin haala'n kay jawani mein har mard jismani le'haz sey normal aur jinsi amal ka ahel hota hai albatta khauf aur zehni daba'u ki wajah sey ba'az auqaat tanau (erection) nahin hota ya aen moqa per khatam ho jata hai jo kay bilkul fitri amar hai kyun kay khauf aur zehni daba'u tanau kay dushman hain, le'haza iss surat e haal kay paesh e nazar pehli raat sex ko zyada ehmiat hasil nahin honi chahiyie chuna'ncha pehli raat mubashrat na karna donon kay liye mufeed hai.Behter hai kay pehli raat dulha aur dulhan gup shup lagaei'n ek doosrey sey waqif hun ek doosrey ko samjhein, ek doosrey ki pasand na pasand sey aagaahi hasil karein ek doosrey kay jazbaat aur ehsaasaat aur khwahishaat ko janei'n. Mubashrat kay elawa ka'ee doosrey tariqo'n sey jinsi lutf hasil kya ja sakta hai maslan pyar o muhabbat ki baatein, biwi mian ki taareef karey, bos o kinar sey lutf andoz hunm ek doosrey kay jism kay lums sey lazzat hasil karein, ek doosrey kay jism per hath phaerein, massage karein. Ek doosrey ko galey lagana, bhee'nchna, baghalgeer hona aur lipatna waghaera bohut lutf angaez hota hai aur phir ek doosrey sey lipat kar so jaei'n lekin agar donon ek doosrey sey waqif bhi hun to phir bhi pehli raat mubashrat karni zaroori nahin. Amooman thakawat ki wajah sey donon zyada lutfandoz nahin hotey taa'hum agar donon fresh hun, raazi hun ya khawand ka israar ho to aap inkaar na karein iss sey amooman tulkhi paeda ho jati hai. Ba'az auqaat yeh inkaar mustaqil tor per mian biwi kay ta'alluqaat mein zeher ghol deta hai. Waisey bhi Allah kay nabi kareem ne biwi ko inkaar karney sey sukhti sey mana farmaya hai aur aisi aurat per farishtey saari raat la'anat bhejtey hain chuna'ncha inn donon surto'n ein pehli mubashrat mein harj nahin aur iss sey lutfandoz honay ki koshish karein. Ta'hum behter yehi hai kay pehley do din ek doosrey ko samajhney, maanoos honay aur ek doosrey kay jazbaat, ehsaasaat, khwahishaat aur pasand, na pasand ko jan'ney mein guzarein inn dino'n mein mubashrat kay elawa mazkoora baala tariqo'n sey jinsi lutf hasil karein albatta jab bhi mubashrat karni ho to uski tayyari karein, din ko aaraam karein mian ki pasand kay pur kashish aur sexy kaprey pehnein. 

PREPARATION OF FIRST INTERCOURSE:

Halka sa makeup karlein, shaam ko khana halka aur jaldi kha lein kaam sey wapsi per mian ka muskuratey huey pur josh istaqbaal karein usey bataein kay aap ney uss kay intezar mein saara din bechaeni mein guzara. Shaam ko ghusl karlein, tooth brush karna na bhoolein apney jism aur libaas ko khawand ki pasand ki khushboo sey mu'atter karein, kamrey kay mahol ko khoobsurat aur purkashish banaein (mubashrat kay aadaab (preparation of intercourse) waley hissey ko ek baar phir parh lein).
Mubashrat sey kam az kam 20 ta 30 minute pehley mohabbat kay khel (foreplay) sey lutfandoz hun (tafseel kay liye 'mohabbat ka khel' waley hissey ka muta'alla karein) hatta kay aap ki faraj mein chiknaahat (lubrication) paeda ho jaey phir mubashrat kay tariqa number 1 ko istimaal kartey huey mubashrat karein, behter hai kay mian ka zakar bhi chikna ho iss tarah dakhool mein aasaani hogi aap ki taangei'n khuli magar zyada ooper na hun dakhool kay waqt apney jinsi lubo'n ko kholein aur zakar daakhil karney mein khawand ki madad aur rehnumaee karein. Iss kay liye zaroori hai kay aap ko khud bhi ilm ho kay faraj kahan hai, kuch aurtein dakhool kay waqt parda e bakarat (hymen) phatney per kuch dard mehsoos karti hain aur kuch khoon bhi nikalta hai magar uss kay sath bey panaah lutf bhi aata hai agar parda e bakarat pehley hi phata hua hai to takleef kam hoti hai, parda phatney ki surat mein dobara foran mubashrat na karein, zakhm ko ek aadh din kay liye mundamil honay dein amooman pehli mubashrat donon mian biwi kay liye kuch takleef deh hoti hai lekin agar khawand zakar ko chikna karley, tez jhatkey na lagaey aur aap jism khusoosan faraj kay baerooni muscles ko dheela chor dein to amooman mubashrat mein takleef nahin hoti. Pehli mubashrat ko aasaan bananey aur khauf ko khatam karney kay liye chund baar tasawwur mein mubashrat karlein iss sey aap ka khauf khatam ho jaey ga aur mubashrat aasaan hogi.

Ba'az auqaat faraj tung hoti hai ya dakhool kay waqt faraj ka mu'nh (entrance) wahan zyada khoon aa janey ki wajah sey sooj kar tung ho jata hai to aisi surat mein dakhool bohut mushkil ho jata hai iss kay liye khawand 20/30 minute kay foreplay kay ba'ad apni shahadat ki ungli (naakhun katey hun) chikni kar kay faraj mein ahista ahista daakhil karey, iss kay sath hi aap bhi faraj kay muscles ko dheela chor dein. Iss sey takleef kam hogi thori der ba'ad ungli ko ander baher harkat dey jab aap isey bardaasht karlein to phir khawand apni angoothey kay sath wali do ungliyaa'n chikni kar kay faraj mein ahista ahista daaley, thori der kay baad unko ander baher harkat dey iss sey amooman parda e bakarat (hymen) phutt jata hai kuch khoon bhi nikalta hai aur ma'amooli si takleef bhi hoti hai magar iss sey zabardast jinsi josh bhi paeda hota hai. Ungliyon kay dakhool kay ba'ad zakar ka dakhool aasaan hojata hai jab khoon kam ho jaey to phir khawand chikney zakar ko tariqa no. 1 kay mutabiq ahista ahista faraj mein daakhil karey aur ahista ahista jhatkey laganey kay sath hi woh aap kay bazer ko bhi mushtail karey, bazer ko aap khud bhi mushtail kar sakti hain. Aurat kay lutf kay liye bazer ka ishtiaal bohut mufeed hai agar aap relax ho kar mubashrat mein bharpoor ta'awwun kareingi to aap ko takleef na hogi ya phir bohut hi ma'amooli hogi lekin agar zyada takleef ho to ek din kay liye mubashrat multawi kar dein ta'kay zakhm mundamil ho sakey. Dakhool kay ba'ad donon mian biwi per ghusl laazim ho jata hai chahey mian ka inzaal hua ho ya na ho. Ghusl e janabat jitni jaldi ho utna hi behter hai taa' kay insan jald paak ho jaey.

SUHAAG RAAT OR MENSES

 Ba'az auqaat suhag raat ko aurat ko haez (menses) shuru ho jata hai jis ki wajah sey khawand ko sukht pareshani ka samna karna parta hai usey zabardast tanau ho raha hota hai jo kisi surat khatam nahin hota mubashrat woh kar nahin sakta aisi intehaee surat mein mard kay zakar aur khusyon mein shadeed dard honay lagta hai woh mard jinhon ney kabhi khud lazzati (masturbation) nahin ki hoti unn kay liye ye ek nehayat sangeen masla hota hai kyun kay agar mard ko 4 ghanto'n sey zyada der tana'u rahey to woh mustaqil tor per na mard ho sakta hai chuna'ncha aisi surat mein biwi ko sharam ek taraf rakhtey huey chahiyie kay woh khawand kay hassas hisson khusoosan zakar ko chikney hathon sey mushtail karey hatta kay woh manzil (discharge) ho kar sukoon hasil karey.

MUBASHRAT K BAAR (AFTERPLAY)

Allah kay nabi ney mubashrat kay foran ba'ad alaehda honay sey mana farmaya hai mojooda mahireen ney bhi afterplay ko bohut ehmiyat di hai, taqreeban tamam mahireen kay nazdeek yeh na sirf bohut ahem bul kay nihayat zaroori hai aur yeh orgasm sey bhi behter hai khusoosan khawateen kay liye. Le'haza orgasm kay foran ba'ad mian sey alaehda na ho jaei'n aur bister sey bahir na nikal jaei'n bul kay uss kay jism kay sath jism mila kar leti rahei'n uss kay jism per hath phaerei'n, choomei'n, uss kay sath baghalgeer hun aur usko bhee'nchein waghaera. Mian ko bataei'n kay woh kis qadar taaqatwar hai aur aap ney uss kay qurb aur mubashrat sey kis qadar lutf uthaya, usey bataei'n kay woh ek shaandaar mohabbat karney wala (lover) hai yani uski ta'areef karein usey bataein aaj kay jinsi amal (love making) mein aap ko sab sey acha kya laga taa kay woh aaenda bhi aap ko isi tarah khushi aur lazzat dey. Safaee waghaera kay ba'ad us kay seeney ya baazu per ser rakh kar so jaein, ikatthey soney ka ek yeh fa'eda bhi hai kay mian ko raat kay waqt phir tanau (erection) ho sakta hai to iss surat mein ek baar phir jinsi amal (love making) sey lutf uthaya ja sakta hai. Mubashrat kay kuch der ba'ad donon ikatthey naha bhi saktey hain mian kay jism per sabun lagaein, usey mulei'n, maqsad mael utarna nahin bul kay lutf hai . Us kay jism per massage karein aur phir uss kay jism ko khushk karein shaadi kay ibtidaee saalo'n mein nahatey huey aap kay jism kay lums sey khawand ko phir tana'u aa sakta hai nahatey waqt mubashrat ka lutf bohut munfarid hai.

GUSAL-E-JANABAT KA TARIQA

Mubashrat mein dakhool kay ba'ad aurat per ghusal lazim ho jata hai iss kay liye mard ka inzal hona ya aurat ka orgasm hasil karna zaroori nahin iss tarah jab bhi koi cheez faraj mein daakhil hogi to aurat per ghusl wajib ho jaey ga iss kay elawa kisi bhi wajah maslan khwab ya tasawwuraat ki wajah sey faraj sey pani beh nikley to bhi ghusl e janabat lazim ho jaey ga.

Ghusl e janabat kay liye pehley donon hathon ko dhoya jaey phir sharam gaah ko achi tarah dho liya jaey aur ek baar phir hathon ko achi tarah saaf kar liya jaey iss kay baad namaz kay wuzuu ki tarah wuzuu kya jaey phir ungliyaan pani mein tarr kat kay baalon ki jarron ka khalaal kar liya jaey phir poorey jism per pani baha diya jaey kay jism ka koi hissa tarr honey sey na reh jaey albatta khawateen ko apney baal kholney ki zaroorat nahin sirf inn per pani baha liya jaey. (muslim, bukhari).

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FOREPLAY (FOR WOMENS)

FOREPLAY (FOR WOMENS)

Jadeed research foreplay foreplay (mohabbat ka khel) ko bohut zyada ahmiat deti hai kaha jata hai kay jinsi amal mein sab sey zyada lutf angaez cheez foreplay (mohabbat ka khel) hai jab kay mubashrat to lutf ka khatima hai. Allah kay nabi ney 1400 saal pehley hi jinsi khel sey pehley mubashrat sey mana farmaya yani foran mubashrat shuru na ki jaey. Wa'zeh rahey kay bos o kinar sey na wuzu toot'ta hai aur na hi roza. (abu daud, nisaee, ahmad, bukhari, muslim). Fitri tor per mard jinsi tor per bohut jald beadaar ho jata hai aur foran mubashrat kay liye tayyar ho jata hai aur do, teen minute mein inzal hasil kar leta hai, iss tarah iss ka saara amal teen, char minute mein mukammal ho jata hai. Iss kay bur'aks aurat kay jinsi jazbaat jald beadaar nahin hotey, jinsi baedaari kay liye usko mard ki nisbat 10 gunaa zyada waqt ki zaroorat hai yani aurat ko jinsi baedaari aur orgasm hasil karney kay liye kam az kam 30 minute ki zaroorat hai. Jinsi baedaari kay liye aurat ko kam az kam 20 minute ki chaer chaar, ishti'aal aur foreplay (foreplay (mohabbat ka khel)) ki zaroorat hai, chu'n kay humarey haan mard o khawateen iss baat sey aagah nahin jis ki wajah sey khawateen ki bohut bari ta'adaad jinsi lutf sey mehroom ho kar jinsi dilchaspi kho deti hain. Aurat apney saarey jism ko chuna pasand karti hai woh chahti hai kay pehley uss kay kam hassas hissey ko chu'aa jaey, Phir zyada hassas hisso'n ko mushta'il kya jaey aur aakhir mein hassas tareen hisso'n ko jab kay mard chahta hai kay uss kay hassas tareen hissey ko chuaa jaey, doosri taraf agar mard kay hassas tareen hisso'n ko jald mushta'il kya jaey to woh jald inzaal kay qareeb pohonch jata hai aur phir agar woh manzil ho jaey to aurat amooman orgasm hasil nahin kar pati aur woh bharpoor jinsi lutf sey mehroom rehti hai mohabbat ka taweel khel dar'asal aurat ki zaroorat hai mard ki nahin.

Mard chu'n kay pehley hi jinsi tor per tayyar hota hai le'haza isey biwi ko tayyar karney kay sath apney aap ko bhi control karna hota hai (iss silsilay mein biwi bhi madad kar sakti hai jis ka zikr aagey hoga) le'haza foreplay mein donon mia'n biwi ki zyada ter tawajjah biwi kay jinsi jazbaat baedaar karney ki taraf ho. Biwi iss silsilay mein khawand ko zubaani ya ishaaro'n sey bataey kay woh iss kay kin hisso'n ko kis tarah mushta'il karey ya phir woh mia'n ka hath pakar kar uss ki rehnumaee karey kay woh kahan kya karey taa kay uss (biwi) kay jazbaat jald baedaar ho jaein, khawand kay sath biwi khud bhi apney jazbaat mushta'il kar sakti hai bul kay behter tor per kar sakti hai kyun kay woh apney jism ko khawand sey behter janti hai humarey haan foreplay mein amooman mard hi fa'aal kirdaar ada karta hai jab kay aurat ghaer fa'aal rehti hai yeh cheez mard ko bohut na gawar guzarti hai chuna'ncha aurat ko bhi khushgawar azdawajii zindagi kay liye foreplay mein fa'aal kirdaar ada karna chahiyie.

Mard ko yeh baat bohut pasand hai kay uss kay jism kay zyada hassas hisso'n zakar waghaera ko mushta'il kya jaey magar chu'n kay mard apni jismani saakht ki wajah sey pehley hi jinsi tor per baedaar hota hai le'haza agar biwi uski pasand kay mutabiq uss kay hassas tareen hisso'n ko mushta'il karey gi toWoh bohut jald inzal kay qareeb pohonch jaey ga, iss ko control karna uss kay liye bohut mushkil hoga, le'haza aap apney mia'n ki pasand kay bar'aks pehley uss kay kam hassas hisso'n ko mushta'il karein aur phir aakhir mein zyada hassas hisso'n ko taa kay foreplay lamba ho sakey aur iss doran aap kay jinsi jazbaat bhi poori tarah mushta'il ho jaei'n. Foreplay mein sab sey pehley kapro'n samaet ek doosrey kay jism per haath phaerei'n, uss sey baghal geer hun, galey lagein, pyar sey chimtei'n, seeney sey lagaei'n, bhee'nchei'n aur lipat jaei'n waghaera, ek ma'aqool waqt bos o kinar (kissing) per surf karei'n khawand kay mu'nh kay andar kiss karein, uss kay rukhsaaro'n ko choomei'n, uss kay dono'n hont apney honto'n mein lei'n aur choosei'n mard kay neechey waley hont aur zakar ka aapas mein bila wasta ta'alluq hota hai, khusoosan uss ko ahista ahista chabaei'n, kaatei'n unn kay gird zubaan phaerei'n, papotey, kaan ki louei'n, gardan kay agley aur pichley hissey ko chumei'n, massage karei'n, honto'n sey chabaei'n, kaatei'n, thori kay neechey galey kay bilkul darmyaan mein neechey collar bone tak ka hissa bohut hassas hota hai, iss per zubaan phaere'in, iss ko chumei'n mia'n ko bohut lutf aaey ga, woh bhi aisa hi kar sakta hai jis sey aap lutf andoz hongi. Ek doosrey kay kaprey utaarei'n, apney apney bhi utaarey ja saktey hain, behter yeh hai kay change kay liye kabhi khud utaarei'n kabhi ek doosrey kay utarei'n ab phir uss kay saarey jism per hath phaerei'n ungliyo'n ki pauro'n sey uss kay poorey jism ko explore karei'n, uss kay sar kay baalo'n mein pyar sey ungliya'n phaerei'n, uss kay seeney per hath phaerei'n nipples ko cherei'n unn kay gird zubaan phaerei'n Inn ko choosei'n, kaatei'n, mia'n ki raano'n kay androoni hisso'n ko chuei'n, thapthapaei'n, chumei'n khusoosan jahan raan aur dharh miltey hain wahan zuban phaerna mard ko bohut pasand hai, yeh usey bohut lutf deta hai uss kay poorey jism per boso'n ki baarish kar dei'n, mard ki baghal bhi ek hassas hissa hai uska baazu ooper uthaei'n wahan hath sey thapthapaei'n, nakhun sey pyar sey khurchei'n, wahan zuban golaee mein phaerei'n yeh mard kay liye bohut lutf angaez hai. Baghlo'n ki khushbuu sey aap bhi lutf andoz ho sakti hain agar aap ko buu na pasand ho to wahan apni pasand ka perfume spray karlei'n mard kay sareen khusoosan uss kay thora neechey wala hissa bhi hassas hai.

Sareen ko chuei'n, tatolei'n, sehlaei'n, chutki lei'n aur pyar sey thapthapaei'n. Apney honto'n ko chikna karlei'n aur phir sareen kay neechey waley zyada hassas hissey per honto'n sey English ka 8 bar bar banaei'n, yeh mard kay liye bohut lutf angaez hai iss hissey per zubaan phaerna bhi mard ko acha lagta hai. Mubashrat mein jab mard ooper ho to uss kay sareen ko pakrei'n aur ek rhythm kay sath zor zor sey bhee'nchei'n khusoosan mia'n kay jhatko'n kay sath aur jab woh inzaal kay qareeb ho to iss hassas jagah ko apney naakhuno'n sey khurchei'n. Mard kay ba'az jismani hisso'n ko chuney aur dabaney sey mard ko bohut lutf milta hai maslan hutheliyo'n kay bilkul darmiyani hissey ko musalsal zor sey angoothey sey dabana, tukhno'n kay neechey garho'n ko ungliyo'n ki poro'n sey dabaei'n aur kuch der dabaey rakhei'n, iss kay elawa aaram sey masaj bhi kya jasakta hai, pao'n kay angoothey kay sath wali ungli kay neechey apney hath ka angootha rakhei'n isey dabaey aur thapthapei'n waisey poorey pao'n ki maalish bhi mard kay liye lutf angaez hai. Mard kay pao'n ka angootha bohut hassas hai ba'az mahireen ka khayal hai kay yeh mard kay jinsi a'aaz'a (male genitalia) ki tarah hassas hai angoothey kay gird zuban phaerna, isey choosna mard kay liye bohut lutf angaez hai.
Dono'n angootho'n ko bari bari choosei'n aur zuban phaerei'n, mard kay liye kaatna bhi bohut lutf angaez hai le'haza bos o kinar (kissing) kay sath jism kay mukhtalif hisso'n waghaera ko honto'n aur daanto'n sey pyar sey chabana, dabana, kaatna waghaera mard kay liye pur lutf hota hai. Haatho'n kay elawa kisi bhi narm aur mulaem cheez sey massage karna mardo'n ko pasand hai, yah cheezei'n jinsi jazbaat bharkaati hain koi silky kapra khusoosan satin, silk waghaera lein aur iss sey khawand kay jism ka massage karei'n iss kay elawa khushbudaar oil sey massage karna bhi lutf angaez hai, khusoosan apney pistaan (chest) sey uss kay jism kay mukhtalif hisso'n ka massage karei'n khusoosan khawand ka seena aur pusht waghaera uss kay seeney sey lipat jaei'n usko saamney sey aur peechey sey khoob mohabbat sey bheen'chei'n, zahir hai kay yah sab baghaer kapr'on kay hoga. Apney nangey jism ko khawand kay jism kay sath rugrei'n iss kay kaee tareeqey ho saktey hain maslan samney sey baghal geer ho kar apney pistaan ko mia'n kay seeney kay sath ragrei'n, sath hi apni taangei'n aur raanei'n uski raano'n kay sath ragrei'n, a'aaza e makhsoosa (female genitalia) ko uss kay jism kay sath ragrei'n , apney mia'n kay sath peechey sey lipat jaei'n, apni chaatiyo'n sey uski kamar ka massage karei'n, sath hi gardan ko choomei'n kaatei'n, hath uss kay seeney per phaerei'n, uss kay nipples ko ungli aur angoothey mein ley kar pyar sey maslei'n mia'n kay liye pur lutf hai.Khawand bister kay kinarey per bethey, us kay samney full size ka aaena ho, aap uss kay peechey taa'ngei'n khol kar iss tarah bethei'n kay aap ki taa'ngei'n uss kay donon taraf hun iss kay sath iss tarah jurr kay bethein kay aap ki naaf kay neechey wala hissa uss kay neechey waley hissey ko press karey, aap kay pistaan (breast) uss ki kamar ko press karei'n apney haatho'n ko achi tarah chikna karlei'n aur uss kay seeney per phaerei'n aur ungliya'n uss kay nipples ko chuei'n aur mushta'il karei'n kuch der kay liye ungliyo'n ko kuch neechey le jaein aur paet kay nichley hissay per pyar se phaerei'n phir mazeed neechey ja kar zakar (penis) ko mushta'il karein , phir aur neechey khusyey (testicles) ko cherei'n aur mushta'il karein inn ko thora sa dabaei'n, zakar ki shaft per zarb lagaei'n iss kay sath sath apney jism ko uski kamar kay sath mazeed press karei'n aur rugrei'n jab kay khawand yeh sab kuch aaeiney mein dekhey yeh khawand kay liye nihayat lazzat aamaez hai.

Mardo'n kay khusyey (testicles) jinsi le'haz sey bohut hassas hotey hain, mardo'n kay liye inko chuuna, sehlana, chaerna, bosa lena waghaera bohut lutf angaez hai inko kaee tarah sey mushta'il kya ja sakta hai, khusyo'n ko bohut ehtiyaat sey angoothey aur sath wali ungli sey bilkul ooper (jarr) sey pakrei'n doosrey hath ki hutheli ko chukker ki soorat mein in kay nichley hissey per halka halka phaerei'n aur doosrey hath se iss jagah ko mukhtalif andaaz maslan bundh mutthi (knuckles) aur hutheli kay nichley hissey waghaera se bar bar dabaei'n. Donon sareen kay darmyaan ungli phearna aur maq'ad ko charo'n taraf sey golaee mein ungli sey mushta'il karna mard kay liye bohut pur lazzat hai. Jinsi tor per mard ka hassas tareen hissa us ka Penis (zakar) hai us ko chuuna, mushta'il karna mard kay lutf mein dramaee tor per izafa karta hai magar khawateen ko iss baat ka ehsaas nahin humarey haan taqreeban sari biwiya'n iss ko hath lagatey huey darti hain ya sharmati hain, agar aap ko yeh bohut acha nahin lagta to apney jism ko khawand ki paero ki huddi kay sath press karei'n taa'hum khawand chahta hai kay iss ki biwi iss kay zakar ko chaerey, mushta'il karey magar woh iss sey duur rahti hai jis ki wajah sey woh jhunjhlaahat ka shikaar ho jata hai. Khawand ki mohabbat jeetney kay liye biwi ko isey chuna aur mukhtalif andaz sey mushta'il karna hi hoga, aurat ko yeh baat jaan leni chahiyie kay zakar ko bila wasta chuna mard kay liye intihaee pur lutf aur sab sey zyada lutfangaez hai, khawand ki aashiq aur dil jeetney wali biwi mard kay hassas tareen hisso'n ko bila wasta mushta'il karegi, chuna'ncha woh mukhtalif andaz sey mard kay zakar aur khusyon ko mushta'il kar kay usko apna ghulam bana legi. Mard kay hassas tareen hisso'n ko mushta'il kartey waqt khusoosi ehtiyaat ki zaroorat hai kyun kay agar inn ko zyada der tak ya zyada josh kay sath mushta'il kya jaey to amooman mard mubashrat sey pehley hi manzil ho jaega bul kay bohut sey khawand surat e inzal (premature ejaculation) ka shikaar hain woh to hassas hisso'n ko chutey hi manzil ho jatey hain.

Male Genital Stimulation:

Khawand kay hassas tareen hissey yani zakar (penis) ko ka'ee tarah sey mushta'il (stimulate) kya ja sakta hai...

Foreplay kay doran kabhi kabhar khawand kay zakar (penis) ko pakrein aur uski topi ko hutheli sey thapthapaei'n, halki halki zarb lagaei'n apney pistaan (breast) sey thapthapae'n aur rugrei'n iss kay sath zakar (penis) ka nipples kay sath rugerna mard kay liye bohut lutf ka baa'iss hai.
Iss kay elawa zakar (penis) ko khawand kay paet per lita kar hath sey thapthapaei'n ya ek hath sey isey uss kay paet kay sath press karei'n doosrey hath ki ulti ungliya'n uss kay ooper ahista ahista rugrei'n aur kuch der ba'ad seedhi ungliya'n phaerei'n, inn sey massage karein yeh mard kay liye bey panaah lutf angaez hai. 

Tanau (erection) sey pehley ek hath sey zakar (penis) ko jarr sey pakrei'n aur doosrey hath ki chikni hutheli ko topi kay ooper rakhei'n aur phir hutheli ko chotey chakker ki surat mein golaee mein rugrei'n.

Iss tareeqey mein donon hath istimaal hongey donon haatho'n ko achi tarah chikna karlei'n ek hath sey zakar (penis) ko neechey sey pakrein, doosrey hath mein zakar (penis) ko pakrei'n saari muttthi band na karei'n, sirf angoothey aur sath wali ungli sey circle banaei'n phir ooper neechey harkat karei'n, jab ooper topi ki taraf aaei'n to angoothey sey topi kay neechey kay hissey wali jhilli ko jo topi aur shaft sey mili hoti hai, halki si chot lagaei'n.

Isi tarah jab ooper pohonchei'n to zakar (penis) ko zor sey bhee'nchei'n, sath hi topi per angoothey sey halki si zarb lagaein jab neechey ko aaei'n to daba'u kam kar dein aur hath ko khol dein iss kay sath hi khusyo'n ya khusyo'n (testicles) aur maq'ad kay darmyan wali jagah per halka sa daba'u daalei'n.
zakar (penis) ki jarr (base) kay neechey wali dheeli jild ko angoothey aur sath wali do ungliyo'n sey pakrei'n doosrey chikney hath sey zakar (penis) ko mutthi mein pakrei'n mutthi ko ooper letey jaei'n aur sath sath iss ko iss tarah bhee'nchei'n jiss tarah maaltey ka juice nichorra jata hai iss ko ooper tak ka'ee baar zor sey bhee'nchei'n aur chor dei'n.
pney khawand kay zakar (penis) ko donon hath sey pakrei'n, ek mutthi ooper ho aur doosri neechey, haatho'n ko chikna kar liya jaey donon haatho'n ko ooper neechey ley kar jaei'n aur sath sath donon mutthiyo'n ko mukhalif sumt mein marorei'n, bul (twist) dein raftaar aur daba'u ko badaltey rahei'n kabhi kam aur kabhi zyada.
Ek chikney hath sey mian kay zakar (penis) ko bilkul neechey sey pakrei'n phir neechey sey ooper ko stroke lagaein, jab pehla hath ooper aa ajey to phir foran doosrey hath sey yehi karei'n, yaksaniyat aur rhythm kay sath musalsal aisa karti rahein. Kuch der ba'ad sumt (direction) badal lein yani ab janwar kay doodh dohney ki tarah ooper neechey ko wohi harkat karein yeh bohut pur lutf hai.
Uss kay zakar (penis) ko jarr (base) sey mazbooti sey pakrein aur phir angoothey ko topi kay ooper chakkar ki soorat phaerei'n, rugrei'n, masaj karein, iss kay sat bohut pyar sey topi kay neechey wali jhilli ko angoothey aur ungli mein ley kar masaj karein.
Mian kay zakar (penis) ki jarr ko dheeli khaal (skin) sey pakrein doosrey hath kay angoothey aur sath wali ungli sey topi kay bilkul neechey jahan topi aur shaft aapas mein miltey hain challa banaei'n phir iss challey ko marorei'n, bul dein kabhi kabhi iss challey ko topi tak ley jaei'n aur phir topi sey baher nikal kar dobara neechey sey shuru karein iss amal ko baar baar dohrae'in yeh mard kay liye bohut lutf angaez hai.

Shahadat aur bari ungli ko chikna karein donon ungliyo'n ka do shaakha bana lein aur zakar (penis) ko un kay darmiyan pakar lein ahista ahista ooper neechey karein ungliyo'n kay joro'n yani gaa'ntho'n sey topi kay neechey wali jagah ko thori thori der ba'ad dabaei'n ungliyo'n ki graft ko kabhi dheela karein aur kabhi kuss lein, kabhi khol dein aur kabhi tung kar dein.
Apni dono'n hutheliyo'n ko aapas mein milaei'n, mian kay zakar (penis) ko inn kay ander daakhil karein phir hutheliyo'n ko aagey peechey iss tarah rugrei'n jis tarah haatho'n ko mala jata hai sath hi ooper neechey bhi harkat dein raftaar aur daba'u ko badaltey rahei'n kabhi kam aur kabhi zyada.
Khawand kay taney (erected) zakar (penis) ko mazbooti sey ek hath mein pakrei'n doosrey hath ki hutheli ko chotey chakker ki surat mein topi kay ooper rugrei'n phir hutheli ko zakar (penis) ki sides per ooper neechey rugrei'n phir zakar (penis) ko mutthi mein pakar lein aur isey marorei'n (twist) aur mutthi ko ooper neechey le jaei'n. Ab topi ko ooper sey ungliyo'n mein pakrein aaram aur pyar sey bhee'nchei'n, chor dein, phir bhee'nchei'n, phir chor dein ka'ee baar iss tarah karein iss kay elawa ungliyo'n ko topi per iss tarah ghumaei'n jis tarah bottle ka dhakken khola jata hai, ya lemon nichora jata hai, yeh bohut lutf angaez hai.
zakar (penis) ko dono'n haathon mein pakrei'n phir bari bari kabhi ek angoothey aur kabhi doosrey angoothey sey zakar (penis) kay soorakh ko aaram sey ooper neechey rugrei'n phir bari ehtiyat sey ek angoothey ko zakar (penis) ki darz (slit) mein daakhil karein aur pyar sey massage karein angootha dhula ho warna infection ka darr hota hai.

Poori tarah taney (erected) zakar (penis) ko mutthi mein pakrein, phir tezi kay sath neechey sey ooper ko stroke lagaei'n aur phir piston ki tarah neechey le jaei'n ka'ee baar musalsal isi tarah masaj karei'n phir do tez stroke lagaei'n phir aaram sey masaj karein phir teen stroke ooper neechey lagaei'n phir aaram sey masaj karei'n iss tarah tez stroke ki ta'adaad barhatey jaei'n darmiyan mein pyar-o-muhabbat kay waqfey daalei'n hatta kay woh urooj per pohonch jaey.

Khawand ko mukhtalif tareeqo'n sey urooj per le jaei'n maslan chikney haatho'n sey uss kay zakar (penis) ko mushta'il karei'n hatta kay urooj kay qareeb pohonch jaey, phir hath hata lein aur apney nipples bosey kay liye usey paesh karei'n jab woh kuch pursukoon ho jaey to phir ahista ahista usey dobara mushta'il karei'n hatta kay dobara urooj per pohonch jaey. Phir us kay zakar (penis) ko topi kay neechey ya jarr (base) sey pakar kar zor sey dabaei'n hatta kay inzaal ki khwahish khatam ho jaey, teesri baar phir ahista ahista (slowly) usey urooj per le jaein hatta kay uska jism kaa'npney lagey tab aap peechey hutt jaei'n phir iss kay samney apney pistaano'n ko maslein jab kay woh aap ko dekh raha ho, dobara shuru karney sey pehley hatho'n ko phir chikna karlei'n iss baar uski raano'n kay androoni hisson aur paet aur doosrey hassas hisso'n ko mushta'il karei'n thori der ba'ad rukk jaein phir shuru karein jitni bar dil chahey karein hatta kay woh inzaal hasil karley.

JALD ANZAL KO ROKNA:

• Mard kay inzal ko rokney kay liye biwi mandarja zael tadabeer ikhtiyar kar sakti hai...
• Biwi khawand kay khusyon (testicles) ko aaram o pyar kay sath ooper sey pakar ley aur inzal kay qareeb khawand kay ishaarey per inn ko aaram sey neechey khaench ley aur 30 seconds tak isi position mein rakhey.
• Mard kay ishaarey per aap apni 2 ungliyon shahadat aur bari ungli sey khusoosan khusyo'n aur maq'ad kay darmiyan wali jagah ko zor sey dabaei'n aur 30 seconds tak dabaey rakhei'n iss sey mard ki inzal ki khwahish khatam ho jati hai.
• Jab mard ko inzal ka khatra ho to woh ishara kardey to biwi uss kay zakar ko topi kay neechey ya jarr sey pakar kar ek hath sey ya donon sey zor sey bhee'nchey ya dabaey aur 30 seconds tak dabaey rakhey to mard ki inzal ki khwahish khatam ho jaegi inn tareeqo'n mein yeh aakhri tareeqa sab sey zyada mu'asser hai.

Amooman donon ek hi cheez ko pasand nahin kartey har fard ki pasand mukhtalif hoti hai le'haza aap khawand ko uski pasand kay mutabiq jinsi khushi dein aur woh aap ko aap ki pasand kay mutabiq khushi dey. Ek fard aaj khushi haasil kar ley to doosra agley din, taa'hum ek raat mein bhi jinsi khushi hasil ki ja sakti hai behter yeh hai kay ek waqt mein ek fard khushi hasil karey aur donon ki tawajjuh sirf ek hi fard per markooz ho.

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