PREPARATION FOR INTERCOURSE

MUBASHRAT KAY ADAB

SAMAN:

Sukht bister, sukht mattress (Farash per rakhney kay liye),

2 sukht pillows, mubashrat (intercourse)  kay waqt biwi ki kamar kay neechey rakhney kay liye. 2 soft pillows sonay kay liye, lubricant. Lubricant aisa ho jo paani mein hull ho sakay maslan koi achi cold cream, jell, jelly, roghan-e-badam, coconut ya olive oil, Vaseline, hair tonic, baby lotion aur petroleum jelly hargiz istimal naa kareyn, yeh faraj mein stick hojati hain jis sey naa sirf strokes laganay mein mushkil hoti hai bul kay faraj mein infection honay ka khatra bhi hota hai. Baghaer bazu ki aik kursi jiski seat darmiyan sey ubhri hui ho aur ziyada chori naa ho. Biwi kay neechey bechanay kay liye aik kapra, ta'kay bister kharab naa ho. Safai kay liye mian aur biwi kay liye alag alag kapra. Yeh cheezain apkay pas hun, inki mukhtalif stages per zaroorat paesh aaey gi.

    Mandarja zael baaton ka khayal rakhna mubashrat (intercourse)  kay lutf ko dobala kardeyga.

1. Maahireen ka khayal hai kay mubashrat (intercourse)  kay din ka mian biwi ko pehley sey pata ho yani pehley sey taey shuda ho. Ya mian biwi aik doosrey ko wazeh issharey dein kay aaj mubashrat (intercourse)  ka program hoga. Amooman ghaer wazeh ishaarey ki sorat mein biwi ko program ka pata nahi hota jab kay mian intezar mein hota hai. Waisey to koi bhi din ho sakta hai magar Islam mein Friday kay din ghusl-e-janabatki fazeelat hai. Yani mubashrat (intercourse)  Thursday night ya Friday sey pehley karna afzal hai. Friday kay din (apni biwi kay liye) ghussul ka saman karey aur khud ghussul karey to isskay liye har qadam per sal bhar kay amal ka badla hai goya woh sal bhar rozai sey raha aur inki raton ko qayam kiya. (Mashkawa) Aik doosri hadees hai " jo koi Juma kay din janaabaat ka ghussul karta hai (Jumein ki naamaz kay liye) sawairai nikalta hai to goya usnay ounth ki qurbani paesh ki. (Bukhari) Behtar hai kay next day off ho ta'kay aram kara ja sakay
2. Mubashrat (intercourse)  sey 1 yeh 2 hours pehley coffee, tea, coke wagbaala aur ziyada paani nahi piya jaey. Yeh cheezain pisshab awar hain jo aksar mardon kay liye prematore ejaculaation ka sabab banti hai.
3. Mubashrat (intercourse)  kisi bhi waqt kara ja sakta hai. Magar Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) aksar rat kay pechley pehar mubashrat farmaatey thai. Iss waqt amooman mard ziyada pur sukoon hota hai jiski wajah sey tanau (erection) ziyada hota hai aur mard jaldi discharge nahi hota. Baz maahireen kay naazdeeq mubashrat (intercourse) kay liye morning 10 bajaey ka waqt ziyada munasib hai. Kyun kay iss waqt testosteroneki production mein ezafa hojata hai jiski wajah sey mard ka tanaau ziyada sukht hota hai.
4. Khanay kay foran baad mubashrat (intercourse)  nahi karna chahiyie, bul kay 2 yeh 3hours kay baad uswaqt kara jaey jab khanaa digisst ho chukka ho. Khanaa pait bhar kay naa khaya jaey aur naa hi ziyada oily ho bul kay soft diet ho yeh cheezain insan kay tanau (erection) ko manfi tor per muta'assir karti hai.
5. Khauf, pareshani, stress, tension aur thakan mein mubashrat (intercourse)  nahi kari jaey. Yeh cheezain tanau (erection) ki dushman hai. Inki wajah sey bohut sey logon ko tanau (erection) ka masla hojata hai. Mubashrat (intercourse)  kay waqt donon ko zehni  aur jismani tor per bohut pursukoon hona chahiyie.
6. Mubashrat (intercourse)  kay liye baqaida tayari kari jaey. Mian jaldi ghar ajaey. Biwi ghar kay kam jaldi karley. Bachon ko suladey. Ap iss book ki madadsey foreplay aur mubashrat (intercourse)  ki planning kareyn yani yeh decide karey kay aj aapko foreplay kis tarhan karna hai. Mubashrat (intercourse)  ka konsa tareqa use karna hai. Mubashrat (intercourse)  sey thori deyr pehley sukoon sey beth jaey aur imaginaaation ki madad sey iss ki practice karleyn.
7. Jinsi amal kay liye pursukoon mahol bohut zaroori hai. Room temperature optimum ho, naa garmi aur naa sardi. Room aisi jagha ho jaha sey aawazein doosrey room tak naa pohoch sakay. Yani shor-o-ghul aur madakhilat sey mehfooz ho. Mubashrat (intercourse)  kay doran insan jinsi haejan mein awazain nikalta hai. Newly wed coupliss ko iss baat ka khauf hota hai kay inki awazain doosrey log naa sunlein. Yeh khauf inkay jazbaat ko sard kar deyta hai khas tor per mian ka tanau iss khauf sey muta'assir hota hai. Baz auqat mard ki tanau (erection) kam yeh khatam hojaati hai. Iss sorat mein soft mu'nhsic lagai ja sakti hai ta'kay awazain bahir naa ja sakayn. Isskay elawa distorbance sey bachnay ka liye phune band kardeyn. Warnaa phune ki ghanti apkay jazbaat ko sard kar deygi. Aur apka tanau (erection) kam yeh khatam hojaeyga. Behtar yeh hai kay bachun waley room mein mubashrat (intercourse)  naa kara jaey. Inkay jagnay kay khauf ki wajah sey ap mubashrat (intercourse)  sey puri tarhan lutf andooz naa ho sakayngai.
8. Aap donon kay jism saf sutrai aur har kisim ki smell sey pak hun. Behtar ho kay sham ko donon ghussul karleyn, kaprai change karleyn. Kaprai aik doosrey ki pasand kay ho. Agar baath room bedroom kay saath ho to mubashrat (intercourse)  sey 1 hour pehley donon aik saath aik doosrey ko ghusal dein. Maqsad mael utarnaa nahi bul kay aik doosrey kay jism kay lums sey lutf andooz hona hai. Brush kar liye jaey ta'kay mouth sey smell naa ai.
9. Romantic mahool jinsi amal ko ziyada luft angaez banaata hai. Room mein roshni madham ho agar rangeen ho to aur bhi behtar. Electricity ki light kay bajaey room ko candel sey roshan kareyn. Candle light mahool ko bohut sahar angaez banaadeti hai. Isski roshni mein aurat ka jism ziyada khoobsurat aur pur kashish dekhai deyta hai. Room mein air frisshner use kareyn. Khushboo donon ki pasand ki ho
10. Bister kushada ho yani double bed ho ta'kay harkat karney mein aasani ho. Foam bohut ziyada soft naa ho, ziyada soft bister per jism ander ko dhans jata hai jiski wajah sey harkat karney mein problem hoti hai. Bed sey charcharahat ki awazein nahi aani chahiyie. Yeh awazain jinsi amal ko manfi tor per muta'assir karti hain. Bed ki sheet colorfull aur nehayat mulaem ho maslan satin ya silk waghaera ki, cotton aur rough bed sheet maza kirkira kar deti hai. Agar possible ho to farash per carpet yeh moti dari ho ta'kay kabhi kabhi change kay liye farash per mubashrat (intercourse)  ki ja sakay. Bed room mein aik big mirror bhi ho ta'kay biwi waha apney banaao singar ko set kar sakay.
11. Mard kay jinsi jazbaat aurat ki zahiri shakal o sorat ko dekh kar bharaktey hain. Lehaza biwi apki pasand ka libas pehney, libas aisa ho kay khoobsurat lagey maslan pistaan waghaera ziyada numaya aur purkashish mehsoos ho. Libas nehayat naram, mulaem aur silki ho. Iss tarhan jab ap isskay jism per hath phaereyngai to aapko aag lag jaey gi. Ap bhi biwi ki pasand ka libas pehnein aur iss ki pasand ka perfume use kareyn.
12. Jinsi amal (intercourse) sey bharpoor lutf andooz honay kay liye apkay pas kafi timeho. Maahireen ka khayal hai kay apkay pas kamsey kam 1 hour zaror hona chahiyie warna biwi sex sey bharpoor lutf naa utha sakaygi. kyun kay aurat ko jinsi amal kay liye tayar honay kay liye kam sey kam half hour lag jata hain. Iss liye foreplay, mubashrat (intercourse)  and afterplay kay liye aapko kam sey kam 1 hour required hai.
13. Aap mubashrat (intercourse)  sey pehley peeshaab pas karley, thathey paani sey isstanja kareyn. Iss tarhan jaldi discharge nahi hoga aur ap jinsi amal ko ziyada taweel kar sakayn gai.
14. Mubashrat (intercourse)  sey pehley biwi bhi thathey paani sey isstanja karley. Isey faraj tight hojaeygi jis sey aapko ziyada lutf aiga, aur biwi bhi nisbaatan jald orgasm hasil kar leygi.
15. Jinsi amal sey pehley ek doosrey kay kaprey utarna bhi ek lutf angaez marhala hai. Biwi ka ezarband aur bra kay hook iss tarhan kay hon jisko aap aasani sey khol sakein. Behter hai kay aap iss ki baqaida mushq karlein. Warna ezarband aur bra ko kholtey kholtey aap kay jazbaat sard par jaein gey.
16. Taqaddus ka taqaza hai kay mubashrat (intercourse)  kay waqt apka mu'nh Kaabey ki taraf naa ho. lekin Quran-o-Hadisss mein isstarhan kay wazeh ahkamat mojood nahi.
17. Mubashrat (intercourse)  foran shuru naa ki jaey. Iss surat mein ap jaldi discharge ho jaein gey. Jab kay biwi ko orgasm hasil naa karney ki wajah sey frustration aur bey sukooni mehsoos hogi. Aurat ko jinsi amal kay tayar honay mein kamsey kam 30 mins lag jaatey hain. Issliye mubashrat (intercourse)  sey pehley half hour foreplay zaroor kareyn.
18. Mubashrat (intercourse) faraj mein hogi. Maqad mein haram hai. Hazrat Abu Huraira sey riwayat hai kay Hazrat Muhammad (P.B.U.H) ney farmaya " Jo shakhs apni aurat ki maqad mein badfaeli karey woh mal'oon hai khuda iss ki taraf nazar rehmat aur shafqat sey nahi dekhta".(Abu Dawood, Tirmizi)
19. Aurton ka khayal hota hai kay zakar ko kab penetrate karna hai jabkay mard ko yeh pata hi nahi hota. Lehaza jab aurat kay jinsi jazbaat urooj per hun to woh mian ko dakhil karney ka isshara karey aur iss kay saath hi dakhool mein mian ko madad karey ta'kay iss ko dakhool mein problem naa ho. Iss kay liye woh zakar ko hath mein pakar kay faraj mein dakhil kar sakti hai. lekin agar aapko sur'at e inzal ka masla hai aur biwi kay hath laganay sey discharge ka khatra hai to biwi apkay zakar ko hath laganay kay bajaey apni aaza-e-makhsoosa (vulva) kay lips ko khol dey ta'kay ap aasani sey dakhil kar sakein. Biwi ki taraf sey cooperation aur guidance na karney ki surat mein bohut sey mard dakhool ki koshish mein bahir hi discharge ho jatey hain. Jis sey biwi ko shadeed frustration aur aapko sharmindagi hogi.
20. Aap mubashrat (intercourse)  kay kam sey kam 4-5 methods mein achi tarhan maharat hasil karley aur har bar mukhtalif method sey mubashrat (intercourse)  kareyn. Aik hi method ko bar bar use karney sey boriyat ho jaati hai aur aurat ki sex mein dilchaspi kam ho jati hai.  
21. Islam mein haez (menses) kay dino mein mubashrat (intercourse) sey mana kara hai. Quran mein irshad hai " Haez mein aurton sey bachoo. Inn sey mubashrat naa karo jab tak woh paak naa ho jaein. To jab paak hojaein to iss kay pas iss jagah aao jiska Allah nay tumko hukum diya hai". ( Albaqrah 222) Haez (menses) mein mubashrat (intercourse)  naa karney wali khawateen uterus kay cancer sey mehfooz rehti hain. Issi tarhan nifas mein bhi aurat sey mubashrat (intercourse)  mana hai. Child birth kay baad aurat ko jo blood aata hai woh nifas kehlata hai.
22. Jaiysey hi aapka zakar biwi ki faraj mein dakhil ho ghussul wajib hojata hai chahey ap discharge ho yeh nahi.(Tirmizi)
23. Mubashrat (intercourse)  kay baad ghusl e janabat wajib hai. Ghusl sonay sey pehley afzal hai. Wazoo yeh tayamu'nhm bhi kara ja sakta hai. Yeh sonay sey pehley organ ko saf karliye jaey aur ghussul subha ko karliye jaey. Allah kay naabhi Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) kabhi kabhi paani use karey bagbaal sojaatey aur subha fajer sey pehley ghussul farmaatey. (Bukhari, Muslim, Ma'uta Imam Muhammsd, Nissey) Albatta agar aap mubashrat (intercourse)  kay baad aur ghussul sey pehley kuch khanaa penaa chahey to wazoo karna afzal hai. (Bukhari, Muslim)
24. Agar ap doosri baar mubashrat (intercourse)  karna chahey to organ dhunay kay baad wazoo karliye jaey yeh kamsey kam organ ko hi dho liye jaeyi. Yeh sab kuch Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) sey sabit hai. (Muslim, Mota Imam Malik)
25. Mubashrat (intercourse)  mein discharge kay waqt mard ki sari mani (semen) khali nahi hoti bul kay kuch mani (semen) pashab ki naali mein rah jaati hai. Isey pisshab ki naali mein infection ho sakta hai. Lehaza mubashrat (intercourse)  kay baad pisshab karna sehat kay usulon kay mutabiq ek faidey mand cheez hai.
26. Aam raton ki tarhan ap ramzan ki raton mein bhi mubashrat (intercourse) sey lutf andooz ho saktai hai. Quran mein irshad hai "Tumharey liye rozon kay samanay mein rat ko apni biwiyon kay pas janaa halal kardiya . Jo lutf Allah nay tumharey liye jaeyz kardiya ussey hasil karo." (Al-Baqra 187)
27. Mubashrat (intercourse)  sey pehley yeh dua pharli jaey. Hazrat Abdullah sey marvi hai kay Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) farmaya hai kay jab tum mein sey koi shakhs ham bistari kay liye biwi kay pas ai to yeh dua parhey     Tarjuma: Ya Allah! humein shetan sey mehfooz rakh aur iss aulad ko bhi jo to humko ata farmein. (Bukhari) 
28. Aap ko chahiyie kay mubashrat (intercourse)  kay foran baad biwi sey alag naa hojaeyn biwi kay saath liptai rahey chahey kuch seconds kay liye hi kyun naa ho. Yeh aurat kay liye bohut lutf angaez hai. 
29. Agar ap mubashrat (intercourse)  mein condom use kartey hain to issko charhanay aur utarney ki khoob practice karleyn. Utarney kay liye yeh to discharge kay baad tanau (erection) khatam honay wai pehley hi utarleyn warnaa yeh faraj kay ander rah jaeyga yeh phir isska woh hissa jo bahir hai discharge kay baad issko pakar leyn. Iss tarhan tanau (erection) khatam honay kay baad bhi ap issko aasani sey bahir nikal sakayngai.
30. Heart Attack aur hernia kay operaation kay kuch arsey baad foreplay aur mubashrat (intercourse) sey perhaiz kareyn. Iss mein mubashrat (intercourse) sey pehley apney doctor sey mashwara karey...
    
    
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